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Showing posts with label Marriage in islam. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage in islam. Show all posts
Friday, October 3, 2014
Wo Roz Roz-e-Eid Ho, Wo Shab Shab-e-Barat Ho..!!
Saturday, August 23, 2014
(" "Beautifull Dua")
("Beautifull Dua")
"Tumhe Kbi Na Koi Dukh Mile",
"Tumhe Zindgi Ka Hr Sukh Mile",
"Tmhara Dil Na Ho Kbi Khafa",
"Tm Muskrate Rho Sada",
"Mene Mangi Hy Tmhare Liye Ye Dua",
"K",
"Allah Raheem Tum Pr Reham Kre Aur",
"Dekhaye Tum Ko Roza ay Mustafa
Tmhare Ghr Me B Sakoon Ho",
"Aur Tal Jaye Har Bala",
"Boht Rehman Hy Mera Khuda",
"Kre Ga Qabool Meri Dua",
"K Tmhe Zindgi Ka Hr Sukh Mile",
"Na Tmhe Kbi Koi Dukh Mile".
"AAMEEN" SUBHA BAKHAIR;;;;;;; HAVE A GOOOOD DAY;;;,,;;
ASSALAM-O-ALIKUM ;;;,,,;
Friday, June 20, 2014
khuda se tuM ko kai bar maang liya ..
kai bar maang liya ..
sochta hu kyo na
tum ko tumse hi maanglu ßeshak
Dil Ki dhadkane tumhari hai par
usme baSne Vaali
Jaan To humari hai ♥]
Thursday, April 18, 2013
7 most beautiful promises that Everyone wants from a lover... ♥
7 most beautiful promises that
Everyone wants from a lover... ♥- I am daily going to wish you
good morning.
- I will always hug you, at least 10
times in a day.
- I will understand you and always
talk you.
- If we fight, or a had some
arguments, we will talk only by
hugging each other.
- I will never escape a single day
without kissing you.
- I will always love you without
any reason... ♥
Friday, March 29, 2013
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Aalam-e-zaat main darwaish Bana Deta hai
Ishq Insaan Ko Pagal Nahi Honay Deta
(`•.¸❤ ♥ +°•.¸ღılııllı► Meri Chahat ◄ıllıılıღ¸.•° ♥ ❤¸.•´)
Friday, March 22, 2013
Today is World Poetry Day: Time for my long pending Poem, Dedicated to
Today is World Poetry Day: Time for my long pending Poem, Dedicated to +°•.¸ღılııllı► Meri Chahat ◄ıllıılıღ¸.•°
May I walk with U.
May I walk with you, a mile or a half?
On a long unforeseen path, with no ends
May I bow down for the dragonfly?
To hitch and catch for numerous times
May I pluck the soft grass leaf, untouched?
With drops of moisture gleamed on it
May I turn around to hear the rustling voice?
For the words untold and unheard of
May I stand and wait for the clouds?
To rain and empty its heart
May I walk with you, shoes in my hand?
To feel the dampness of the soil
May I take the air closer to your arms?
Let tossing my hands for a touch
May I..May I walk with whole my life?
Saturday, March 9, 2013
Suna Tha Tere Shehar K Log Wafa Karte Hain Dost ,
Suna Tha Tere Shehar K Log Wafa Karte Hain Dost ,
Jab Deewane Hum Huey To Usool Hi Badal Gaye ,,,,!!
A Speechless Message With Deep Feelings ?
A Speechless Message With Deep Feelings ???
Both Are Quiet,
But Have Hundreds Of Things Running In The Mind..!!
Both Are Missing Each Other Badly,
... But Want The Other One To Initiate The Conversation..!!
Both Want To be With Each Other,
To Fight, To Argue, To Show Love,
But Would Pretend That They Are Fine Without Each Other..!!
Both Want To Meet Each Other,
But Will Not Say Anything 'n Wait Silently..!!
They Would Send Each Other Silly Messages,
But Would Not Tell Them: 'Stupid I am Missing U..!!
This Is Love..
Sometimes We Miss Out On Most Loveable Moments,
Jst Bcoz We Want D Other One To Take D First Step..!!
Showing Love Might Improve The Situation,
But Showing Ego Definetely Ruins It..!!
Like 'n Share this If You Love Someone Truly.. !!!!
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Ek Achi BETI Ka Apne LOVER Ko Jawab
Han Ye Sach Hai Ke Muje Tumse Muhabat Hai
Ye Bhi Sach Hai Ke Men Tumari Chahat Hun
Par Meri Zindagi Men Chahaton Ki Kami To Nahi
Rishte Aur Bhi Hain Ek Sirf Tum Hi To Nahi
Apni Zaat Ke Is Pehlu Se Milwaoun Tumhen ?
Main Kia Hun Kaise Hun Batlaoun Tum Ko ?
Apni MAA Ki Tarbiyat Hun
Izzat Hun Apne WAALID Ki
Maan Hun Apne BHAAI Ka
Monday, February 25, 2013
Scarp is Necessary
Because our hair is covered
And don't tell me we can't enjoy
We are just far away from pleasing a boy
Maybe you will not think I am cutie
but it’s all about an inner beauty
People will always judge
I am free and let them watch
Judge me with my sight
Not with jeans that's very tight
Talk with me and you will know
Which one of us is the fool
We are strong enough to fight
Give us a break and appreciate our minds
From my obedience I am not ashamed
I am only afraid
I am only in love
With the one up above
Friday, August 24, 2012
Marriage in Islam
Marriage in Islam: They are Clothing for You and You are Clothing for Them
Allah Almighty says:
أُحِلَّ لَكُمْ لَيْلَةَ الصِّيَامِ الرَّفَثُ إِلَىٰ نِسَائِكُمْ ۚ هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَّكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَّهُنَّ
It is made lawful for you to have sexual relations with your wives on the night of the fasts. They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.
[Sûrah al-Baqarah 2:187]
Allah chose to use the word “clothing” rather than any other word to describe the special relationship between a man and his wife. Allah made the man clothing for the woman and the woman clothing for the man. The word "clothing” as used in this context is rich with meaning. It would be quite difficult to express in words every subtlety that it conveys. We shall try, however, to consider a few of the ideas that this word expresses.
The word “clothing” in its most literal sense is what immediately covers the body with no barrier in between. The word clothing connotes the idea of equality, complementarity, and support of both a psychological and physical nature. The man has his role and the woman has hers. The woman cannot be construed as merely a vehicle to fulfill the man’s desires. She is a human being, equal to the man. Each of them is as clothing to the other in every aspect of life.
Clothing implies adornment and beautification.
Some of this beauty is of a physical kind, for a person sees in the one he truly loves beauty that others do not see. Some of this beauty is also of an intangible nature. Faithfulness and enduring friendship are a part of faith, as the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said.
A woman adorns herself with her husband when she speaks about him to her friends. She can tend to embellish her account, claiming that he loves her so much, honors her so much, and gives her so much… even when the truth is far short of all that.
Clothing conveys the meaning of covering and concealment. Allah Almighty says:
يَا بَنِي آدَمَ قَدْ أَنزَلْنَا عَلَيْكُمْ لِبَاسًا يُوَارِي سَوْآتِكُمْ وَرِيشًا ۖ
O Children of Adam! We have bestowed upon you clothing to conceal your shame and as an adornment.
[Sûrah al-A'râf 7:26]
A husband and wife screen each other from falling into sin by fulfilling one another’s needs in a lawful manner. Likewise, they conceal from others their intimacy. They do not disclose to others the details of their physical relationship nor the secrets that they share between them nor the little problems that they have with each other. They do not allow the personal life that they share together become the topic of public discourse.
It was the way of Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم . He said quite clearly to those of his followers who wanted to become overly ascetic:
مَا بَالُ أَقْوَامٍ قَالُوا كَذَا وَكَذَا لَكِنِّي أُصَلِّي وَأَنَامُ وَأَصُومُ وَأُفْطِرُ وَأَتَزَوَّجُ النِّسَاءَ فَمَنْ رَغِبَ عَنْ سُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي
What is the matter with people who say that? Rather, I pray and I sleep, I fast and I eat, and I marry women. So whoever abandons my Sunnah (tradition) is not one of us.
[Sahih Muslim, Book 8, Number 3236]
Clothing is a sign of wealth and self-sufficiency. In marriage, the husband and wife fulfill each other’s needs. Allah says:
وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِفُرُوجِهِمْ حَافِظُونَ
إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ
And those who safeguard their private parts, except from their wives and those whom their right hands possess.
[Sûrah al-Mu’minûn 23:5-6]
Clothing is a pleasure and a delight. Indeed, Allah has made clothing one of the pleasures of Paradise. He says:
وَلِبَاسُهُمْ فِيهَا حَرِيرٌ
Their clothing therein shall be of silk…
[Sûrah Fâtir 35:33]
Marriage should indeed be a garment of pleasure. It should bring pleasure to the body and to the soul. It should bring about inner balance and alleviate tension and anxiety. Those who are denied this often suffer from depression, worry, and emotional instability.
A husband and wife should find in one another peace and tranquility.
Clothing covers a person’s body, particularly the private areas. In the same way, a wife protects her husband with herself and likewise protects his wealth and children. The husband in turn protects his wife with himself and safeguards her secrets and fulfills her needs.
Allah Almighty says:
فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ حَافِظَاتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ۚ
Righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in their husbands’ absence what Allah would have them guard.
[Sûrah al-Nisâ 4:34]
Clothing conveys the image of something directly touching the skin. It is an intimate bodily contact without any barrier. When the husband and wife have intimate contact, it is as if their bodies take the place of clothing. Symbolically, there is the implication of close proximity and contact throughout their life together.
Clothing needs to be kept fresh and clean. It needs to be washed. Likewise the marital relationship between a husband and wife must be refreshed and reinvigorated.
Clothing is a personal distinction. Each of us wears his or her own personal clothing. One’s husband or wife has an even greater exclusivity. Allah Almighty says:
وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِفُرُوجِهِمْ حَافِظُونَ
إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ
And those who safeguard their private parts, except from their wives and those whom their right hands possess.
[Sûrah al-Mu’minûn 23:5-6]
Clothing provides variety. Who among us would be content with only one suit of clothes? Likewise the marital life should provide variety. This is why when the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم was asked about the limits that Islam imposes upon a husband and wife in their intimate relations, he made it clear that everything between a husband and wife is permitted except for two things: anal sex and sex when the woman is menstruating. Even then, the Prophet informed the husband and wife as to what they could do when she is menstruating. He صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
اصْنَعُوا كُلَّ شَىْءٍ إِلاَّ النِّكَاحَ
Engage in everything except sexual intercourse itself.
[Sahîh Muslim, Book 3, Number 592]
